i got a call abt 10.45 p.m, it was my aunt calling to tell me that if her son came to me n asked me to accompany him to naija to get married in december, i shouldn't anwser him. everyone in the family has been banned from having anything to do withthis so called wedding.
i see the coward of a boy has fianlly fessed up to my aunt abt his wedding plans. can u imagine, my aunt says she calle dhim to come take her to a birthday party, then on the way in the car he told her, mom i am planning on getting married in december in naija. just thot i'ld let u know.
then he goes on to say after all when u were getting marreid, did ur own mother tell u when to get married or when u were ready to get married.
my ist question to my aunt was did she give him a dirty slap. what kind of question is that.
u know maybe b4 i became a mother, the question or remark may not haev bothered me but i can just imagine one of my girls saying that to me. ludacris i say.
anyways, the war is officially on now. my aunt is even calling all his friends that she knows that they must not go to naija with him. i don't know what good that would do though. seems like his mind is made up.
my own thing is i just can't get over what kind of family plans a weddign for their daughter without the grooms family coming to ask for ther hand in marriage. how can they plan a wedding knowing that no one in the grooms family is going to show up for.
well kudos to my cousin sha cos it sure as hell takes guts to be a lone ranger like that.
i really feel like my aunt should call her parents n let them know that hey have heard of the proposed wedding n tell them how they feel abt it. afterall r they wishing them dead that they would hold a wedding while they r hale n hearty in their absence. i am sure they wouldn't stand their own kids doing the same to them.
how do u tell ur parents that u r gettign married n just telling them for their information. aren't u supposed to sit them down, with or without the girl n let them know that this is where u r n this is what u would like to do n then talks commence from there.
i say the boy has lost it. my uncle says nko imi wani ibe. there is soemthing else behind this. oju lasan ko. this is beyond what the mere eyes can see.
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I still think he needs to be away from the situation so he can see and think clearly. His family needs to back down and try something else, at this stage, it is too late for threats. He needs to be away from her for a while. What about asking his friends to help out with this? an early bachelor party? to find out what is really going on?
waffarian, i have tried abit but he wont go anywhere without her. he was supposed to come here, for thanksgiving, then it was xmas, then it was his friends naming ceremony, but he never ends up coming cos, she had to go to california, then she went to naija, different resasons sha. so here we are.
Your aunts plan of attack might just be pushing him directly into her arms. It's clear the boy is being manipulated, this just adds more ammunition to his girlfriend, so she can further isolate him from his family. Why he doesn't know that nayone who wants to isolate you has nothing good in mind for you is beyond me, i don't care how good or freaky the sex is. Maybe there's some other secret of his that the girl know that she's holding over his head somehow. Well my dear, I would suggest that you and your family pray for your cousin/brother/son, to deliver him from the hand of this succubus
Wow!!
Hope you are well ...
remi, i am fine o jare. i have decided to remove myself from the drama scene. i have enough to deal with on my won o jare.
men, the last few lines summed it up!!Does she not have passport?i dunno what would posess someone to do that...good luck with your cousin tho
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