Sunday, July 8, 2007

feels good to be back !!

Wow !! Its been almost 2mths since i have been away from everyone.



First of, I WOULD LIKE TO SAY A BIG VOTE OF THANKS TO ALL OF YOU THAT SENT THEIR LOVE, ADVICE, PRAYERS AND CONCERN. I wont start to mention names but y'all know who u are. And for those that contacted me personally, thanks can never be enough. And most importantly I would like to thank my Father up in heaven for the gift of life and for being my pillar of strenght. what award did i win again??



I really felt guilty for leaving like that again. I know some may have even given up on my blog. i think even I gave up on myself. I can only ask that y'all bear with me. Oh, not becos i have issues but we all get tired and lazy sometimes. But this my own laziness get one kind sha:)



Anyways, I am still very married. I have gotten somekind, n i say somekind of closure form my last episodes. Abeg I am not the only one alive so the devil better watch himseff and stay on vacation permenantley. Well that is my prayer n I am sticking with it.



If i say i haven't lost the urge to blog i would definatley be lying.

Also i kinda got tired of always blogging abt some craziness or the other. But then if I don't do my rants and ravings here where else will I do it. I figure it is better here than me bottling it all up sha.



So i will try to work on keeping it clean and happy. So happy thots happy thots (thats me meditating).



If i occasionally start my wahala stories, bear with me abeg. Thats just life dishing its usual and besides ain't drama good read anyways?



So on the up side, the girls are doing so well in school. Extremely well adjusted. Infact they get upset when we come pick them up. Especially olivia. She practically slams down whatever she is holding n grudgingly picks up her things. It can't mean nothing but she is happy where she is right?

work is great. but not without its drama. i know already right? what do u expect when u work with women. ok i must make a diclaimer before saying this but especially when they r all white. i fell like i constantly have to watch my back and cover my ass. i think they feel threatened by me. some of them i don't even understand .especially one who constantly compars herself to me n is kinda jealous cos i am new n i have neem given quite a load of responsibility. she has been there longer but the thing is hello, u only have a certificate n i bagged the degree! she practically sulks all day but i just ignore here n do my work. After all thats what iam there for. maybe i will psot abt work next blog. this was supposed to be a quick update not another rant session. i have already started with drama. at least i tried it wasn't in the ist nor 2nd paragraph:)
I like what i do so far so thats the most important part actually not the paycheck at the end of the week is the good part.

All my weddings went well. The girls where actually in two. all out of town. so a goos portion of my checks has been going into weddings n things. i am swearing off weddings for the rest of the year. even though i still have two more but i may have to just shenk them cos they r both in naija. my hubby will just kill me. i really went overboard with the last two weddings. hmm that sounds like another happy post for another day. i would have put up picks but i am sure u all understand my trying to keep my identity well under wraps. i give u'all a pretty good amt of inof abt me that i would never reveal to anyone else so just enjoy the priviledge.


hmm what else? well this was just mean to be an update so i will keep it simple and sweet.

so here share a toast with me. to happy new beginings and endings. here here. my glass of greygoose and cranberry is getting empty. so gotta go refill.

20 comments:

ATLien said...

Hey girlie, it's sooo good to have you back! You don't know me and I've never left a comment on any blog before but i just had to this time. I came across your blog a couple of months ago, after I just moved out to ATL, and I'm so very glad to see that you're doing well. I was worried especially cuz you'd been gone so long. Please take good care of yourself and the kids. I know God will give you the strength to overcome any problems that you'll face. Stay blessed!

Remi Fagbohun said...

I cannot begin to tell you how relieved I am!!

E go betta, na so life be!

Welcome back ...
xoxoxoxo

Omara said...

I'm sooooooo glad ur back! And sounding so positive too... here's to better times ahead for us all.

SOLOMONSYDELLE said...

Thank God, you are back and that your marriage is still on. God dey, my sister. I will have a drink in your honor okay.

Will be back soon to check in. Thanks for stopping by my blog and come by often, oh!

Unknown said...

Well, i just dropped by to let you know of a competition that is running at the africanloft.

www.africanloft.com

Pls, participate.

pammy


Ps: 600 words is just a page..

SOLOMONSYDELLE said...

Howdy! Just checking up on you. Hope the fam is well!

SOLOMONSYDELLE said...

Just checking in...

Nonesuch said...

welcome back. Glad thing are settled btw u and hubby. you have all it takes within u to make it work. Blees u.

DB said...

Welcome back!! I am so glad I decided to cruise by and see if you’re back. I haven’t had a chance to check out anyone’s blog for awhile… work is manic.

Well, my dear, please keep on posting…you used to be my lunch-time reading. I’ve had to work thru lunch instead!!

I am so glad that you have been Blessed with the continuation of your marriage. God always prevails when you ask Him to step into a situation.

Love to the girls… shame you can’t post the pics… I am dying to see just how cute they are. Well, that just means that you have to give a blow-by-blow account so we can use our imaginations!

God Bless.
“See” you soon.

dbaby said...

hi darling,
i have an issue with you, wat's with the devil has gone on vacation!You should be like the devil has gone to hell where he belongs and because you're so filled with God he most definitely will not be coming back. You sound like you don't deserve to be happy for a long time and darling you do. You deserve to be happy. so this time babes, the devil isn't coming back ok? he's out for good no matter what it seems like or looks like. we are a people of faith, and that's what we work by faith not sight. lol

uknaija said...

Hang in there, good to have you back

KemiMamaLopes said...

Where you dey? Abeg come back now. Please, please

KemiMamaLopes said...

Merry Christmas to you and yours. Kemi xxx

SOLOMONSYDELLE said...

Happy New Yam, oh! God's blessings to you and yours. May the new year be one of peace and prosperity.

SOLOMONSYDELLE said...

jUST NOTHER CHECK IN ON YOU AND THE FAM . gOD BLESS!

KemiMamaLopes said...

A whole year! Hope you and yours are well.

KemiMamaLopes said...

Have not forgotten you. How are the twins? Take care

suburbannaijamom said...

kemimamalopes,


wow thanks dear for checking on us. we are still here by his grace. Its been such a long time. I honsetly quite forgot i still had this blog up. hmm food for thot. I will have to see about coming back. Going back and reading all the past comments. I have missded my blogville family!!!

KemiMamaLopes said...

Still dey check you sha :)

suburbannaijamom said...

@ kemimamalopes

omg, i totally forgot abt this part of my life. gosh havemt blogged in ages. i even forgot my password. u r sure more than a good freind to have. u dont give up on people. thats such a rear quality. thanks for checking on me. just had anoda baby last mth. we caught ourselves trying for a boy. but no such luck :) . Thank Gid however it was a singleton. experimentation days are over. the factory has officially been closed.


how r u n ur family. i dont check here often. send me ur email address. we can prob keep intouch betta